Warrior language

I’ve written before about the metaphors we use to describe our relationship to cancer. This recent LA Times op-ed also makes a good argument for questioning the way we talk about having cancer and why.

When she became dizzy and passed out in the hospital, she’d wanted to ask her oncologist if she was dying, but she couldn’t bring herself to project anything other than a positive outlook. “I’m not a quitter,” she told me, “but I think fighting this is killing me.”

Read the full article:

The good that can come when we stop seeing cancer as a battle to win or lose, by Sunita Puri

Spoon Theory

This video is a vivid explanation of living with Lupus. But it applies also to people with incurable cancer, chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, or other debilitating illnesses. Thanks to my friend Knitting Beth for bringing this to my attention. It’s worth the 13-1/2 minutes. Watch it!

Survivor? Warrior? What am I?

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Andre the Giant in the movie, “The Princess Bride”

My sister-in-law Teresa recently brought this article, “I Have Cancer. Please Don’t Call Me a ‘Survivor’” by Howard Wolinsky to my attention (the article may require setting up a free login to read). It captures my reluctance to be called a cancer “survivor” or “warrior.” Some people adopt one or both of these labels readily–that’s fine with me. But I won’t wear either on a t-shirt. Continue reading “Survivor? Warrior? What am I?”